When I began meditating on today’s passage from Matthew, I got
depressed thinking about dreadful photos from Iraq, scandals in the Church,
etc. If such things are the “fruit” by which we will be judged, we are in
sad shape. What could I offer besides an additional, unnecessary dose of
depression?
The answer came on my morning walk: Bob Reilly, my recently deceased
friend and role model. Bob was an Omaha public relations professional
and professor, the author of more than a dozen books, a World War II veteran,
a proud Catholic with 10 children, and an expert on Ireland. His lifetime
of kindness culminated in caring for his beloved wife, Jean, a victim of
Alzheimer’s Disease. While few of us are blessed with Bob’s talents,
we can all emulate his concern for others.
Bob’s legacy is less in his wonderful writing than in the numerous people
he touched. I marveled at the way this nationally distinguished author donated
precious time to local writers who might never publish a word. He helped
numerous struggling authors including me through the difficult process of
publishing a first book. He always seemed to have all the time in the world
for whoever was intruding on his overbooked life.
When I became a professor, I consciously tried to emulate Bob. Numerous students
frequently spoke with something akin to reverence of the impact of his attention
and advice. He was a teacher who modeled what he taught. He exemplified
the service to others that we see in the best Christians – not people who
make headlines but those who teach first graders to read, empty bedpans with
a smile, wipe noses, do tax returns for the elderly, serve dinner at soup
kitchens etc.
I read one time that the answer to choking on bad news is to become “good
news” to others. This is how we can counteract the headlines that make us
ashamed. We can all try to produce “good fruit” as Bob did.
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