When I read the first four lines of today’s Gospel about
“false prophets coming in sheep’s clothes,” I
immediately thought of an acquaintance who had some parallel behaviors
to the warning in this Gospel. This individual forged friendships
and relationships with others – only for many of us to discover
he created a pattern of deception that unraveled. His deception
has resulted in both financial and emotional havoc for two colleagues
in particular.
Upon first reading of the Gospel, I had difficulty with the remainder
of the Gospel – because I made a language parallel between
“a good tree and a bad tree” with “a good person
and a bad person.” I have a strong belief in separating a
person from one’s behaviors, i.e., I do not see a person as
good or bad. Rather, I evaluate behaviors as positive or negative.
I believe we are all capable of behaviors on a positive to negative
continuum.
So I struggle with the 21st century parallel language and meaning
to the “good tree and the rotten tree.” One desired
understanding is that the practice and re-iteration of positive
behaviors results in a “good tree, i.e., a good person”
– which, in turn, results in more positive behaviors by that
person. If we believe (which I do) in the inherent dignity of each
individual who is capable of positive behaviors and capable of change
from negative behaviors, then one does not dismiss any individual
as “a rotten tree.”
While there is pain and grief in my two above colleagues’
lives because of how they were deceived by the above individual,
they live out the Christian dimension of recognizing his innate
dignity. While they grieve his negative behaviors, i.e., his “bad
fruits,” they, also, make a distinction between who he is
and what his behaviors are. They do not dismiss him. They pray for
his healing. I believe this is what I am called to do and practice.