It was a warm afternoon the last week in July, and I was sitting
in the kitchen of my Amish friend, Mary. She was ironing with a
gas powered steam iron while her bread dough sat rising on the counter.
We were talking about all the storms we had this spring and summer,
oats threshing, back pain, and the new produce auction building
in the Amish community. We always have lots to visit about. When
her husband Eli, a church bishop, came in to join the conversation,
I told him I was writing a reflection for Creighton’s on-line
ministry on the Gospel of Matthew that we read for today. I asked
him for his thoughts but he first asked me to share mine. Here is
what I said.
“I think that this passage is about the community of faith
and how it holds individual Christians accountable. I also think
it is about how the power of God works through the community of
faith. The first part is about discipline and order, but I don’t
think Jesus was talking about the role of the church community to
discipline people so much as he was talking about how the power
of God works in a community where individuals submit themselves
to one another in an orderly community. I see how that works in
the Amish community, but I think most people just see the Amish
community as a boundary of rules and restrictions. But I don’t
think the Amish see it that way. I think they see the boundaries
as the gathering of individuals who submit themselves to agreement
so that they can experience Christ in their midst.”
Eli’s round face beamed. His eyes twinkled and his huge white
beard widened as he grinned. He pulled off his straw hat and the
beads of sweat ran down his nose as he spoke with confidence. “It
doesn’t start with discipline. It starts with love. We know
God loves us and we are to love each other. There is nothing better
we can experience on this earth than the love of our brother or
sister. It is that love that allows us to address the sins in our
midst in the way that Jesus said. We practice exactly what it says
in the Bible. We’re not perfect people. We sin against each
other. And we deal with it so it doesn’t go so far as to bring
division in the community. We greatly value the Christian community
because we know how very powerful it is to experience Jesus in our
midst.”
This was my response. “I think our people have moved very
far in the direction of practicing their faith and prayer life as
individuals. We rarely hold each other accountable for our sins.
And it is often very difficult for even two people to agree on anything.
Instead, we isolate ourselves from each other and call on God to
be with us as we go it alone against the world. Even as members
of a faith community, we do not think of ourselves as one body with
many parts, but instead, as many individual bodies who share a part
of who we are with the transitory church community.” Eli and
Mary agreed that this is what they see in the world and try to avoid.
As I reflect further on the Gospel for today and my conversation
with my Amish friends, I have decided that I would like to start
a small prayer group with one or two friends or relatives with whom
we can pray openly together for the same things that we pray individually
to God. I believe that this will be a very powerful experience of
Christ in our midst. I pray with you that we will all grow in our
relationship to God and relationships with each other through accountability
to a faith community comprised of our family members, neighbors,
and co-workers so that we may experience Christ in our midst each
day.