Paul, writing in the first century A.D., could easily have been
writing in the 21st century. In the first Reading, Paul is responding
to the great concern one community of people, the Philippians, have
shown him. He notes their generosity of spirit as they have given
much to him. When one reads this Daily Reflection, in any sector
of the world in early November 2008, I think each one of us is concerned
about the global economy and what it means for us, for our immediate
neighbor, and, for our distant neighbor. We are called to be attentive
to a concern for others and to be generous in spirit – and,
it seems that the present economy of the globe will give us ample
opportunity to do so.
As I thought about this Reading, I also thought about a book I’m
reading – How Big is Your God? by Paul Coutinho,
S.J. He wisely distinguishes between charity and compassion. I quote
his definitions – “…I would describe myself as
being engaged in charity when I am in control of the situation:
I can decide who I am going to help, how long I am going to be of
service, and the price I am willing to pay. Ultimately, I decide.
When I am compassionate, I do not decide. I have no control –
I am sucked into the situation. I am not concerned with who the
person is, or what the person needs from me, or how long I am going
to be with the person, or the price I will have to pay.” (pp.
20-21). I interpret compassion, versus charity, being shown by the
Philippian community with Paul.
This same concern for the other and having generosity of spirit
is weaved into two of the three Responsorial Psalms, i.e., “Well
for the man who is gracious and lends…” and “Lavishly
he gives to the poor…” May our journeys be one more
of compassion than charity.