From a Creighton Student's Perspective
August 20, 2012
Junior, Justice & Society Major
I believe it is in our relationships that God is found. I believe God is just as present in my relationship with my mother as with my best friend as with the guest at Siena/Francis Homeless Shelter that I ate dinner with on Monday, as with the co-worker I do not necessarily get along with. For in each of those relationships belongs love and patience, and we must approach each person in recognition of their sacredness. It is not always easy and I will be the first one to say that I do not always treat each person with this amount of love and respect. But I must continue challenging myself to have these right relationships with others.
Then Jesus throws a bit of a curve ball and tells the young man to “sell what you have and give to the poor”. Often our possessions take priority over our relationships with others. Here Jesus calls us to rid us of the things that keep us from having deep relationships with others. I cannot tell you how many times I will be sitting with others and we will be on our phones or social networking sites. This is absolutely a possession that keeps us from having right relationships with each other. We are not present to each other; we are connecting with the outside world. It is a blessing and curse all in one. It is incredibly convenient and wonderful to be able to call my parents at almost anytime or text my friends to see when they are going to dinner, but at what point does it detract from my here and now? This is just one example of how things keep me from relationships.
So today, we will end with a reflection.
First, let us thank God in deep gratitude for the people and relationships in our lives, the ones that are easy and the ones that are more challenging. Let us take some time to reflect on what some of the relationships bring us, whether it be a practice in patience, the ability to deeply love, or the new perspectives it offers.
Next, let us reflect on what keeps us from truly being in those relationships. Why are those things keeping you from the relationships? What can you do to change that? If it is your cell phone, maybe put it out of sight and on silence while you are at a meal with friends or family. If it’s television, turn it off and spend time outside or playing games with family or friends. We all have barriers to our relationships; it is the recognition and active practice to rid ourselves of those barriers that will make our relationships with others and ultimately with God that much more fulfilling.
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