As part of my doctoral research, I often asked school teachers in India whether they treated all their students equally. Almost always they would say that, in general, they did—but they would also admit that they had a favourite student. I felt it was fair. All of us have a favourite someone: a friend, an actor, a sports personality. Usually it is because they meet our expectations, and we feel deeply connected to them. It seems the Lord had His own favourite as well.
Today is the feast of the favourite disciple of Jesus, St. John. He is called ‘the beloved disciple’ because the biblical narratives reveal a man of great emotional power, capable of profound love and unwavering commitment. And love and commitment, I believe, help us understand others more clearly.
The Gospel says, “…he saw and believed.” John believed that Jesus had truly risen. He is credited as the first to understand and believe in the resurrection. What made this possible? It was love, love that gave him eyes to read the signs and a mind ready to grasp their meaning. The gospel and the Epistles of John speak repeatedly of love, showing that the author wrote from experience. Love is the greatest interpreter. Love can grasp the truth when intellect is confused. Love looks beyond the surface.
So today I ask myself: can I become the Lord’s favourite, so that I may understand him and act according to his will? Yes, I can—provided I am willing to love Him with the same depth and devotion as the beloved disciple.
Rev. Anish Kochanichottil, SJ
My name is Anish Kochanichottil. I am a Jesuit from India, currently residing at the Jerome Nadal Jesuit Residence while pursuing my MBA from Creighton University. Before coming to the USA, I was involved in school education for over a decade. My academic background includes a doctorate in education, with research focused on Critical Pedagogy and Missionary Education. I am truly excited to be part of the online ministry’s daily reflections and to share my insights.
