When I first received my assignment for this date, I was excited to reflect on the readings for the Holy Family. As the date came closer, I became more hesitant – how to do justice to reflecting on the ideal family while living in reality. Where is the balance between idealizing families and facing our brokenness as humans? Christmas season is certainly the time to focus on hope and the “gifts” that we are given throughout the year. The gift of family – whatever shape or form – is one to celebrate not only at this time but also throughout the year. Perhaps it makes great sense that we read about the Holy Family as we start the new year – to remind us of the need to appreciate family every day – and be full of hope for the new year.
I especially appreciated the gospel and the focus on Joseph. Every reading about Joseph fills my heart with the image of a wonderful father. While I pray frequently to Mary and consider her my loving Mother, I do cherish Joseph. I understand that he is not a father in the way of our one Father – perfect and loving, yet Joseph to me comes as close as possible for an earthly perfect father. He is understanding and forgiving, noble and humble, strong yet gentle and, most of all, a man of unfailing and enduring faith. Joseph listened to angels well before Bethlehem and accepted the situation and explanation. It’s always impressed me that even before the first dream and angel message, he did not condemn Mary, rather planned a way to save her. He demonstrated that he was a man of kindness and compassion even when he thought he had been betrayed. His following of the dreams related in this gospel further confirm his faith in his God and his faithfulness to his family. He is the consummate protector – doing whatever was/is necessary for his family and in his very special way being guided by angels in dreams. Joseph protected Jesus from before He was born and continued this care throughout His childhood and probably early adulthood. He was an earthly role model for Jesus, teaching Him to be a carpenter until His time came for public ministry.
Even though many details are missing as to Joseph’s life, we know he is the good and faithful father and husband. He is, indeed, a pivotal piece of the Holy Family. Mary, our perfect mother, born without sin, provides the epitome of motherhood – one to hold in reverence and awe. I always pray to her especially when praying for my children and grandchildren, knowing she understands the concerns of a mother. However, I know that I will never be close to her perfection. Joseph offers us (me) the approachable parent – not perfect but certainly wonderful! I can learn so much from each member of the Holy Family!
Nancy Shirley
I returned to Creighton in December 2003 having previously taught at Creighton from 1980-1989 and involved in many campus activities including ILAC and CEC House. Since returning, assumed Faculty and Administrative roles on both Omaha and Phoenix campus prior to retirement August 2022. Served as the Nursing Director for ILAC from 2013 – 2021 and as a reservist in the Army Nurse Corps for 23 years.
I am a grateful child of God, wife, mother, nana, and retired nursing professor. My husband and I met at church and have walked this extraordinary journey together experiencing CEC in 2004 and growing more committed to our beliefs. In addition to my husband, I am blessed with a wonderful daughter and son, who in turn are blessed with wonderful partners. My son’s four children bring us all endless joy and delight. My daughter’s daughter (our youngest grandchild in Phoenix) has been a true gift beyond description. In early 2023, I became a Great-grandma!! I am now retired faculty at Creighton having taught nursing here from 1980-1989 and returned “home” in 2003 to teach nursing at all levels and to administer the undergraduate program on both campuses until 2022. My mantra has been My life is God’s gift to me; what I do with my life is my gift to God!!
Now in retirement, I appreciate more and more all the ways that I find God in my life especially through my family and garden and through music and song. I find listening to Christian music daily in the car keeps the right message in my head. It is, indeed, a blessing to be part of this ministry. Writing reflections is an opportunity to ponder the readings deeply in my heart and to share those musings and some music that further touches my soul. I am a recipient of God’s grace with each one I write.
