Jesus said to his disciples:
“Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.
“Stop judging and you will not be judged.
Stop condemning and you will not be condemned.
Forgive and you will be forgiven.
Give and gifts will be given to you;
a good measure, packed together, shaken down, and overflowing,
will be poured into your lap.
For the measure with which you measure
will in return be measured out to you.”
I write this as the Lenten season begins. Luke’s gospel is rich and provides an opportunity to examine my own heart and conscious. What is my relationship with God and people who have been purposely placed in my life? Do I value these relationships? If so how do I communicate my gratefulness? Why am I quick to judge and criticize?
Recently at work we were discussing these very issues. A situation occurred and a series of events followed. A quick display of anger, a condemning email, a gathering of colleagues or ‘posse’ to quickly share the event.
In reflection I ask …What is this really about? I look within and become aware that this ‘judgment’ of others ….is to sooth my own sense of failure, to reaffirm my own importance, and to gain back a sense of control. Self-centered motives. All un-needed in God’s eyes.
For God loves me in all my imperfectness. I in turn need to share that love with others during times of “imperfectness.”
We are human and today’s powerful message is a reminder of our own imperfect human-ness. I am grateful for God’s forgiveness and the forgiveness others extend to me when I sin. The ability to forgive and extend an olive branch translates to caring, compassion, and love. I am grateful for that love.
Cindy Costanzo
I have worked at Creighton University since 2005 as a full-time associate professor in the College of Nursing (CON), graduate school, and College of Professional and Continuing Education (CPCE). In 2023, I transitioned to part-time as a adjunct associate professor in CPCE within the Doctorate in Interdisciplinary Education department. I love working with doctoral students as they journey toward their terminal degree.
Reading and writing reflections for this ministry augments my daily meditation and allows me to grow closer to Jesus. Spending this time in prayer and meditation over the past several years has transformed me in ways I am forever grateful.
