Today’s Gospel reading from Mark is one of the shortest, but also one of the most impactful of the Gospel readings. Mark tells us the story of Jesus traveling within Judea and across the Jordan during which time some Pharisees were asking him questions about marriage, divorce, and other topics. It was at this time that parents, theologians suggest these were most likely fathers, were bringing their children to Jesus so that he might touch them; basically, to bless them. But the disciples rebuked the parents for doing this. Many believe the disciples were protecting Jesus who was likely tired or they thought that the children were insignificant or not worthy of Jesus’ time; after all, they were just children. Keep in mind that during this time, children were deemed insignificant. They were considered nonpersons who were often ignored, abused, and exploited. So, one can possibly see where the disciples’ attitude toward children takes root.
But, as we know, Jesus has a special place in his heart for those with no social standing in society. As such, he becomes “indignant” and actually angry with his disciples for rebuking the parents. He says, “Let the children come to me; do not prevent them.” Then Jesus says what some refer to as the Magna Carta of children – “For the Kingdom of God belongs to such as these. Amen, I say to you, whoever does not accept the Kingdom of God like a child will not enter it.” Wow, pretty incredible words at a time when children were deemed insignificant and unworthy to even approach Jesus. What Jesus actually meant by “like a child” has been discussed since the day it was said. As a father of four adult daughters and now three grandchildren ages five months to two and a half years old, I keep them in mind as I reflect on what Jesus meant by “like a child.” Yes, a little ornery at times, but their innocence, their ability to accept others no matter their gender, race, or income. Their ability to quickly forgive and to rarely carry grudges. Their complete trust in us and their unconditional love toward others. Their childlike wonder – remember the incessant, “Why?” and other questions? And relatedly, their reliance on us to teach by words and more importantly by action.
So, how does this parable apply to us today? To me, it’s pretty simple. Take the best qualities of being “like a child” and incorporate them into our lives as adults. Go into our interactions with a basic sense of trust, be open and accepting of people from all backgrounds – especially those that are different from ourselves. Be quick to forgive and let go of grudges. Maybe, most importantly, have trust and faith in God and live joyfully. And as Mark wrote, we will be embraced and blessed.
Michael Kavan
I am currently the Associate Dean for Student Affairs at Creighton University School of Medicine. I am also a psychologist and a Professor of Family Medicine and Professor of Psychiatry. I have been a faculty member at Creighton University since 1988 and teach classes on a variety of topics related to behavioral medicine, depression, anxiety, and interviewing skills for medical students and residents. In addition, I practice psychology at one of our family medicine clinics.
I am happily married to my wife, Mary, and we have four daughters. I truly enjoy working with medical students and assisting in their professional development. I like to spend time cycling, running, fly fishing, reading, and spending time with my family.
I greatly appreciate the opportunity to write these reflections. They provide an opportunity to reflect on the daily readings at a deeper level and determine how best to translate the messages into practical advice for day-to-day living. In doing this, I truly believe we may begin to live out the message of Jesus Christ.
