Dai­ly Reflec­tion
Jan­u­ary 14, 2005

Friday of the First week in Ordi­nary Time
Lectionary: 309
Tamo­ra Whitney

The read­ings for today real­ly talk about prepa­ra­tion for heav­en.  And I was espe­cial­ly think­ing about prepar­ing for heav­en as I was prepar­ing to write this.  I attend­ed a funer­al today.  The deceased was two weeks shy of her 84th birth­day.  She had lived a long and full life, and she left a son and five young grand­chil­dren who will all miss her very much.  But the funer­al still had a very joy­ful feel to it.  The music played was very upbeat and her long life was cel­e­brat­ed, as it should be.  Because of course, she’s in heav­en now.

In Hebrews the pre­vi­ous gen­er­a­tion was rebel­lious and did not fol­low God and so could not ensure their place in heav­en.  The cur­rent gen­er­a­tion was learn­ing from their mis­takes and planned to fol­low God’s will. This woman whose pass­ing I cel­e­brat­ed today was my pre­vi­ous gen­er­a­tion – she was a close friend of the whole fam­i­ly but clos­er to my own grand­par­ents’ age.  But I think today the younger gen­er­a­tion can take a les­son from our pre­vi­ous gen­er­a­tions, espe­cial­ly in terms of faith.  This woman was as faith­ful a per­son as I’ve met.  As we’re admon­ished in the psalm, she nev­er for­got the works of the Lord.  She loved ani­mals and nature and always focused on her faith and every­thing she had rather than what she lacked.  She had a bad child­hood and a tough life, but she always trust­ed in God, and he got her through to almost 84 years.  She nev­er had much, but she always helped those who had less.  When I was a strug­gling grad­u­ate stu­dent she often sent me some mon­ey to help with gro­ceries or books, even though I know she nev­er had much extra her­self.  And I know I was not the only per­son she helped from her own mea­ger means.  And when I was com­mut­ing from Lin­coln to Oma­ha for many years she always told me she had a ‘prayer cloth’ over my car and had asked angels to ride along with me.  And I got back and forth I don’t know how many times and in a vari­ety of weath­er con­di­tions with­out a prob­lem.  And I know she had a whole list of peo­ple she prayed for every day. She’s an embod­i­ment of these read­ings.  Any­one from the younger gen­er­a­tion could take a les­son from this woman’s faith, and she has sure­ly entered into rest with God.

Tamo­ra Whitney

Adjunct Assis­tant Pro­fes­sor of English

I teach in the Eng­lish depart­ment. I teach com­po­si­tion and lit­er­a­ture and Crit­i­cal Issues -- a class that has a com­po­nent on Jesuit values.

I like writ­ing these reflec­tions because it makes me think more deeply about the scrip­ture and think about how to inte­grate the ideas into my own life and how to share these ideas with others.