“Neither is new wine put into old wineskins, otherwise the skins burst, and the wine is spilled and the skins are destroyed; but new wine is put into fresh wineskins, and so both are preserved.” Matthew 9
Today’s reading applies appropriately to our current times probably just as it applied hundreds of years ago. Change is hard, it is uncomfortable and it is challenging. In fact, when I look back at the times I had to change it always came first with denial and a lack of self-awareness. This was followed by defensiveness, a refusal and rationalization for not changing. At this point I always had a choice. I could ‘dig in,’ become hardened, defensive, self-righteous, and even bitter – OR – open up, display my vulnerability, soften my heart, and welcome the uncomfortable into my life.
In a book called Sacred Space – The Prayer book for 2020 (pg 241) the commentary for the July 4th reading Matthew 9: 14-17 complements my reflection on change. “So many opportunities are lost because we, as individuals and as communities, are not ready to leave behind what is no longer valid and useful, and instead we look for painless change. In doing so, we lose both the wine and the wineskins.”
Today’s reading and message clearly guide me to discover what is useless, step into the uncomfortable, enter into new conversations, soften my heart and welcome change.
Cindy Costanzo
I have worked at Creighton University since 2005 as a full-time associate professor in the College of Nursing (CON), graduate school, and College of Professional and Continuing Education (CPCE). In 2023, I transitioned to part-time as a adjunct associate professor in CPCE within the Doctorate in Interdisciplinary Education department. I love working with doctoral students as they journey toward their terminal degree.
Reading and writing reflections for this ministry augments my daily meditation and allows me to grow closer to Jesus. Spending this time in prayer and meditation over the past several years has transformed me in ways I am forever grateful.
