“Now I am going to the one who sent me and not one of you asks me, ‘Where are you going?’ But because I told you this, grief has filled your hearts. But I tell you the truth, it is better for you that I go for if I do not go, the Advocate will not come to you. But if I go, I will send him to you.”
Today’s reading from John speaks poignantly to me. Graduation is a week away. Every time I turn around, I’m hugging a senior turning in a last paper. Just as it was better for Jesus to go, our seniors must leave. But like the disciples, we grieve a bit in anticipation of the coming departures.
Transitions are hard. We dread giving up the good times, places and people in our lives in the hope and anticipation of moving on to even better. This is where faith moves in. We simply have to learn to entrust our lives to God.
Even when terrible things happen, we do not abandon hope that good will come from our suffering. It has always struck me as ironical that a personal tragedy often lies at the root of much of the good that people do. I’m thinking of the daughter of a friend who turned her nightmarish experience with rape into a national crusade to reduce the stigma from which rape survivors suffer or the way Eunice Kennedy Shriver created Special Olympics because of her family’s experience with a retarded sister. There are countless examples of learning and growing from pain and then reaching out to others in need.
The first reading reminds us that much of how we will fare in life depends on how we respond to what befalls us. The earthquake provides a path to salvation that the jailer would never otherwise have found. It wasn’t inevitable. The jailer could have returned Paul and Silas to captivity or walked away from them, shaking his head at their stupidity in staying.
I pray that our seniors will realize that God offers the hope of turning sorrow into joy and suffering into help for others if only they respond to the promptings of the Advocate that Jesus sent his disciples and us.
Eileen Wirth
I’m a retired Creighton journalism professor, active in St. John’s parish and a CLC member. In retirement, I write books about state and local history, including a history of the parish, and do volunteer PR consulting for groups like Habitat for Humanities, refugees etc. I love to read, work out, spend time with family and friends including those who can no longer get out much.
Writing reflections has deepened my faith by requiring me to engage deeply with Jesus through the Scriptures. In the many years I have been doing this, I’ve also formed friendships with regular readers nationally, most of whom I have never met. Hearing from readers and what I learn by writing make the hours I spend on each reflection well worth the effort.
