St. Peter’s letter seems intent on fostering community. He begins by addressing them as “Beloved”.  Being addressed as ‘Beloved’ reminds the reader and listeners that they are loved and valued by the writer. Letters that begin this way often make people more open to what someone is telling them as they know the writer is invested in their well-being.  They will be able to hear St. Peter’s instruction from that context and help them learn what will nurture their community:  “Beloved: Clothe yourselves in humility in your dealings with one another ...”

Being humble makes us more approachable and more welcoming.  For most of my life I have worked with people who have significant financial difficulties.  The last 17 years have focused on financial education and coaching.  At the beginning of each class, we tell the participants that “If you are stressed about money, then you are a normal American.”  Disbelief often competes with relief on their faces as they learn they are not the only one struggling with their finances and/or have made poor decisions. It sets the tone for the class sessions much as St. Peter did with his “Beloved” greeting.

We all can hear what we need to hear to make our lives better if we don’t feel judged or are made to feel ashamed.  We can change our behaviors that hold us back or keep us from building community when we feel love and compassion. St. Peter’s letter is about teaching this emerging community how to care for and behave towards each other. 

After urging humility, St. Peter goes on: “…Cast all your worries upon him (God) because he cares for you.”   As the weeks of financial education go on, people build community among themselves.  Learning they are not along in their struggles and suffering gives them compassion for themselves and others in the same boat. It also gives them courage to believe in their ability to manage their finances better and to make different choices.  They celebrate each other’s small victories and share resources they know about.