December 5, 2024
by Susan Naatz
Creighton University - retired
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Isaiah 26:1-6
Psalms 118:1 and 8-9, 19-21, 25-27a
Matthew 7:21, 24-27

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I had accepted a new ministry position after leaving a beloved parish where I had served for several years. It was my first day. I walked into my new office.  I noticed the desk was cleared except for one item. It was a small rock with the word "dream" on it. One of my soon to be coworkers had placed it there to welcome me. That rock became a cherished symbol for me and was on every desk I had for the next 20 years.  It represented strength, love, and hope.  And most especially,  it was an invitation from God to never stop dreaming.

There is an expression that people use, when speaking about someone they can rely on and who is always there for them.  They say, "She is my rock" or "He is my rock."  To be a rock for someone may require great courage and resilience.   They are there when times are difficult, joyful, or challenging. They consistently do what they say they will do and deeply care for others. They are a safe haven.

Have you had someone in your life who you would describe as your rock?  Picture them right now. Think of their precious qualities and inherent goodness.  You might want to take a moment to thank them and tell them what they mean to you.  It is often through those relationships that we encounter God.

Matthew’s gospel invites us to have faith in God who is our eternal rock. God provides strength, love, and hope. God roots us and anchors us when the winds of life push and pull.  We can ask ourselves if we are building the dreams of our life on the rock, who is God.  Or are we settling on the sand of cultural disruptions and superficiality which can blow us away from God when the storms surge in?

My friend and colleague welcomed me to a new ministry with her gift.  I was excited but I was also grieving the loss of the other community and feeling the insecurity of learning about a new one.  The beautiful, small rock on my desk was a beacon inviting me to trust.  God’s grace was infused in that moment. 

Here’s an idea:  find an actual rock in your yard or during a walk, that speaks to you.  Place it on your desk, nightstand, windowsill, or kitchen counter.  Each time you look at it, thank God for anchoring you. Thank God for being your rock and for speaking to you through the love of others.   Build your house on rock and let the dreaming begin.