Daily Reflection March 20, 2023 |
What will people think? I was raised in a loving home by Christian parents. They taught me, with their words and actions, and many of those lessons were quite good. Some, though, I wish had not stuck. For instance: I am too often concerned with what others think, and I think I got that from my mother. When I am faced with a decision, somewhere in the back of my head my mother’s voice asks in a very concerned tone some variation of the question, “What will people think?” Back in early December 1989, when I told her that my fiancée (now wife of 33 years) and I had decided on a January 1990 wedding, Mom worried that people at church would think we were marrying quickly because we “had” to. I think she worried for a full nine months, until it was evident that a baby was not on the way. In today’s Gospel reading from Matthew, we find Joseph as he learns that the woman to whom he was betrothed, but who was not yet living with him, is pregnant. What will people think? Will they think that Joseph, known publicly as a righteous man, had engaged privately in unrighteous behavior? Will they think he has questionable judgement in choosing women, since most probably did not know how Mary became pregnant? According to the law, he could end the betrothal and marriage with a divorce, and he would have done so without the angel’s intervention. How Joseph responded throughout this situation provides a good model for us, especially since his actions are evidence of traits that God values. After all, this is the man God selected to help Mary raise Jesus.
What will people think? Specifically, what will other Christians think when I hear God calling me to show mercy or seek justice when my society, church and/or family may disapprove. The Gospels are filled with accounts of religious leaders disapproving of what Jesus did (as well as when, where and with whom). The centuries since are riddled with instances of some Christians resisting other Christians’ God-directed works. I am most familiar with United States history, where we find Christians on both sides of the battles against slavery, child labor, women’s suffrage, the Civil Rights Movement, and many other issues. There are many issues demanding our attention now, and these need righteous people – by which I mean faithful people who prayerfully hear, recognize and respond to God’s directions. Trust in God to make you sufficient for the task at hand. What will people think? The best answer I can give is from the Lauren Daigle song, “You Say,” when she sings to God: |
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