August 30, 2024
Tom Lenz
Creighton University's Department of Pharmacy Practice
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Friday of the Twenty-first Week in Ordinary Time
Lectionary: 429

1 Corinthians 1:17-25
Psalms 33:1-2, 4-5, 10-11
Matthew 25:1-13

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Attending elementary school as a young boy, I remember many occasions when I asked my mom and dad to help me with my homework, especially math. I wasn’t very good at math, and I think that led me to dislike it even more, procrastinate, and sometimes not do it at all. I just wanted my parents to do it for me. I remember trying every trick I could think of to get my mom to do the math problems on a separate sheet of paper and I would just copy what she wrote on my own homework paper. But, to my later benefit, she never did. She would say things like, “I can’t be with you in the classroom to help you when the teacher calls on you. You have to know it for yourself.” Math was hard for me, and I struggled for a long time. Eventually, things got better, and that would have never happened without my parents' guidance. Rather than just trying to get through the assignments (and reach my ultimate goal of summer break), I had to do it on my own. It was the only way I could actually “know” math for myself. Thank you, Mom and Dad!

When I first heard the parable about the ten virgins, I was a little taken aback. I thought they were just being mean and selfish – it didn’t make sense. But as I stayed with it, I realized it was like how my parents guided me as a young boy. I would not truly know math unless I did it myself. And I cannot truly know God and the Kingdom of God unless I am active in the process. I can go to church, participate in the mass, and listen to the gospels, but unless I actively engage with the messages in my daily life [pray], then I will not really know God and what the Kingdom of God is at any kind of meaningful depth. And certainly not enough that will allow me to join in the wedding feast. In the parable, the Lord didn’t let the foolish virgins through the doors to the wedding even after they purchased the oil because they were not ready – just as the many times I wasn’t ready to answer math questions when I was called upon by my teacher. But the last line of the parable gives hope to all of us when Jesus says, “Therefore, stay awake, for you know neither the day nor the hour.” We will be called upon again, and it’s never too late to join the wedding banquet. So many gospel stories describe the Kingdom of God as a grand party, and I would really like to be at that party. So…I guess I will keep doing my own homework.

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