Jesus says: “Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross and follow me.”  I find this a wonderful verse to reflect upon as we prepare to enter the season of Lent.

Let us think about this and the challenges of humanity as we strive to follow Jesus’ words.

What does it mean to deny oneself? We must take a selfless approach to things. Surrender to Jesus. He leads and we follow. This is tough as there must be an element of extreme trust to accomplish this. One of my favorite images of this is that of the Good Shepherd and his sheep. As I reflect on the image of the Good Shepherd, I feel peace and protection. I think it’s easier to surrender in an environment of trust safety.

Take up your cross. Does this mean that we literally carry heavy burdens? Maybe—however when I dig a bit deeper, I remember the experience of Jesus carrying his cross. He was mocked, spat upon, and beaten in public. He knew he was walking to his death. Consider a time when you felt rejection due to your beliefs. Perhaps taking up one’s cross involves loving your enemies and forgiving. We will witness the ultimate in forgiveness during Lent when we recall Jesus pleading forgiveness for his killers as he looks to them from the cross. “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.”

“Follow me.”  The words are much simpler than the actual task. Why is it so difficult to always follow Jesus?

• Humans are born with sin and are inherently self-centered.
• We tend to take the path of least resistance. Why would somebody choose to take a difficult choice?
• Trust is a critical component of any relationship—and it can be hard, particularly for those who have experienced any past betrayal.

Allow me to go back to the image of the Good Shepherd. Every image of the Good Shepherd I have seen consists of a kind, gentle looking person who knows and loves each lamb and would do anything to protect each lamb in the flock.

When we take time to nourish our relationship with Jesus, it becomes a bit easier follow Jesus’ direction for today. Let's take some time to surrender ourself to the Good Shepherd. Let's pray on the challenges that prevent us from fully denying ourselves, taking up our cross and following Jesus—especially as we embark on the forty days of Lent.

 “You must accept your cross; if you bear it courageously, it will carry you to Heaven.” -- St. John Vianney